Carson had his 18 month checkup today and it went great, as usual :)
Here are his stats from today, compared to Austin's 18 month stats.
Height: 33 5/8 inches (80%) Austin was: 33 1/4 inches (75%)
Weight: 26 lbs 13 oz (60%) Austin was: 24 lbs 10 oz (30%)
Carson's a much bigger boy :) Their head circumference (49 cm) was actually the same!
So Carson and I headed to the doctor while Austin stayed with Uncle Kevin and watched The Jungle Book. It's so much easier to concentrate and talk to the doctor when I don't have to chase after both kids (plus our pediatrician's office is notorious for running behind and its so hard to entertain both of them in a little room!) Carson and I had a fun time hanging out in the waiting room and he probably ate 4 boxes of raisins while we sat there
As far as the appointment goes, she was very impressed with both his fine and gross motor skills. She said he's very social and personable and she just loved his sweet disposition. He has 6 teeth still (hasn't got any new ones since before his 1st birthday) but she said she can see a couple on the bottom that should be poking through soon. He lost a pound but gained an inch since his 15 month visit back in July. I'm sure the lost weight is due to how active he is. He is also starting to get darn picky like his brother eat a little less :) I had switched him to 2% milk awhile ago because he drank so much but since he drinks less now she wants me to switch him back to whole milk. He didn't get any immunizations beside his flu shot (big alligator tears).
The only issue I had that I wanted to talk to her about was that he still isn't talking like I think he should be. She agreed, but said that she doesn't feel there is anything medically wrong with him. She read a word book with him and asked simple questions like "show me where the duck is" or "where is the baby?" and he pointed to whatever she asked him to. She pointed out that he is very social, he can communicate by pointing/grunting/jabbering, he isn't behind in any other area, he shows affection and hes good at doing what I ask (bring me your blankie, put that in the trash, etc) and if there was some type of issue going on, at least one of those areas would be lacking in typical development. The first thing that most doctors want to test for when there is a speech delay is autism and clearly he has no signs of that at all (whew!). She still thinks he's just a slow talker and he'll get it when he wants to. I know I'm not supposed to compare him to Austin at this age or other kids his age but its so hard not to. I know he'll talk when he's ready and since there are no other issues going on, I feel slightly relieved. She set him up with a speech therapist just to be evaluated and to ease my mind, but she said if I wasn't so concerned she wouldn't have gone that route. I don't see any harm in having him evaluated and since our insurance covers it, we might as well. Anyway, she made me feel a lot better about it and said she is 99% sure he's just a slow talker and that nothing is wrong. I never really suspected something to be wrong since he's clearly meeting his milestones and thriving, but I just hate to see him fall behind and I want to do whatever I can to help him out. We have the greatest doctor and I trust her completely, she spends so much time with each patient and really just hangs out and talks when she comes in the room. She noticed how clingy he was and what a mama's boy he is and said that he is showing signs of really healthy attachment. Really Healthy Attachement=I don't ever get to go to the bathroom by myself. It makes it really hard some days but at the end of the day, its ok. I know these baby days will be gone before I know it and so if that means an extra little body trailing behind me and pulling at my pant leg 24/7, its worth it! I am actually enjoying him being needy at this point because Austin was so independent he rarely cared if I even left the room! Its nice to feel loved :) Anyway, here are a few pictures from while we waited:
On the evaluation sheet she gave me, here are the guidelines a typical 18 month old:
Should be able to:
Understand simple commands: Check
Follow simple directions: Check
Walk well, stoop, climb chairs: Check
Feed self with fingers: Check (he feeds himself with a spoon and fork)
Listen to a story: Check
Indicate what he wants by pulling, pointing or grunting: Double check!
Can point to one or more body part: Semi-Check. He does it when he wants to haha
May even be able to:
Walk quickly or run stiffly: Check
Throw a Ball: Check
Has a vocabulary of 15 to 20 words: Not so much.
Uses a spoon and cup: Check
Shows affection: Check
Immitate a crayon stroke on paper: Check
Turns single pages in books or magazines: Check
(So seeing all the "checks" makes me feel better)
And talking a lot or not, my little boy is still perfect and just the sweetest thing ever!